@ cypeg :
gameID=15120 was not a Choose Your Country Game. And there was no such thing as "to arrange with your buddies after the signup, to play for a 6man draw after you eliminate Cypeg first." [YOUR EXACT WORDS]
You almost didn't answer me at all in first turns of that game. AFTER THAT, AS A CONSEQUENCE, I proposed to other players, who were communicating correctly, to cooperate against you.
gameID=9310 was the first game that I finished on this site. When I started that game, I did not know one single player. I certainly did not have any pre-arranged alliance with anyboby.
At a certain time, there was a possibility that one or two players could make a solo. I found a solution to prevent a solo, which should be your goal in a Diplomacy game if you can't win, shouldn't it ? My solution was to *threaten* to give some of my SCs to my ally so that he would win IF a "Draw" was not voted. I thought that the other players like you and RUFFHAUS 8 would be forced to vote "Draw". Some players, my ally and I voted "Draw". You, cypeg, and RUFFHAUS 8 refused to vote "Draw", although you knew that you were going to lose the game. It was you right. And it was also my right to give my SCs to my ally : I would rather see my ally win the game instead of one of my enemies.
That trick is absolutely allowed by the rules. If you or RUFFHAUS 8 find it unethical is only YOUR problem. Diplomacy is a game were it is allowed to lie : most of us agree with that. However most people will agree that lying is unethical.
I will tell you now what I think : you and RUFFHAUS 8 and possibly other players in that game, were just shocked by my trick of threatening to give some SCs to my ally and you were too proud to admit that my threat was real and ALLOWED BY THE RULES. You really make me think of children with a big mouth who start crying as soon as things get really nasty. It looks to me that you haven't seen much of what's possible in a Diplomacy game.
Talking about ethics in a Diplomacy game, which once again allows lying and betrayal, is very interesting but is also a kind of nonsense. The only thing that we should all agree about is that everyone plays the game within the limits of the rules. The rest is just personal preferences.
For example, I don't like players who are rude and hostile in their communications. Some think that such behaviour is acceptable, I find such a behaviour "unethical". Well that is only MY problem and it is my responsabilty to either accept that or to choose to not play with rude people.